Face to Face

There really isn't much that makes me nervous. I tend to be a pretty confident person. But tonight my husband and I went to meet the intended parents that I plan on being a surrogate for. I have to say, I felt like I was going to throw up. Seriously, my stomach was in knots. This felt like the most intimidating job interview ever. I have spoken with them on the phone and truly felt as though this was the couple I was meant to work with. But I was worried that maybe they didn't feel that connection, and I was about to find out if this relationship was going to progress.
Dad and Mom (I'm not going to write their actual names to maintain their privacy) drove 2 hours to come and meet us for dinner. They are a lovely Nigerian couple, both hardworking professionals. They have been married since 1997 and have been trying to have a baby since then. Suffering through several miscarriages and failed fertility treatments and procedures could have made them bitter, but it has not. They are sweet, funny, optimistic and gracious. And they are thankful that I am willing to carry their baby.
The meeting was wonderful, better than I could have hoped. Russell and I both adore them and I believe this is the beginning of a lifetime friendship. We are moving forward on this incredible journey together.