Sunday, December 11, 2011

Face to Face

There really isn't much that makes me nervous. I tend to be a pretty confident person. But tonight my husband and I went to meet the intended parents that I plan on being a surrogate for. I have to say, I felt like I was going to throw up. Seriously, my stomach was in knots. This felt like the most intimidating job interview ever. I have spoken with them on the phone and truly felt as though this was the couple I was meant to work with. But I was worried that maybe they didn't feel that connection, and I was about to find out if this relationship was going to progress.
Dad and Mom (I'm not going to write their actual names to maintain their privacy) drove 2 hours to come and meet us for dinner. They are a lovely Nigerian couple, both hardworking professionals. They have been married since 1997 and have been trying to have a baby since then. Suffering through several miscarriages and failed fertility treatments and procedures could have made them bitter, but it has not. They are sweet, funny, optimistic and gracious. And they are thankful that I am willing to carry their baby.
The meeting was wonderful, better than I could have hoped. Russell and I both adore them and I believe this is the beginning of a lifetime friendship. We are moving forward on this incredible journey together.

8 comments:

  1. Chas, this brought tears to my eyes...again, I will say I am so glad to know someone as selfless and strong as you...you are an amazing mother and woman!

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  2. I got chills reading this. What a wonderful gift for this couple. You are truly amazing!

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  3. Wow. I feel honored to be a witness to such an amazing journey. I will say it a million times, you are a phenomenal woman.

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  4. :) going to enjoy reading this blog journey. U are an amazing soul.

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  5. Thanks everyone. I'm so glad people are sharing this journey with us. It has already been an eye opening experience and Russell and I are looking at it as an adventure :)

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  6. This is so wonderful, I am so happy for you all.

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